Billionaires Guide: Advanced Body Language Decoder

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This is a follow up to part 1 of a Billionaires Guide:  Decode her body – if you have already not yet read I recommend you click on this link click here.

Now that you got the basics covered, lets move on and read in to her.  Make sure that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an indication that you are on the right track, keep going in that direction. If the opposite happens, just change the subject and see what happens.” The really gorgeous and beautiful girls however very seldom get around to displaying the signs of interest described above. They simply don’t have to, as they are used to getting some attention already long before that. With such girls you have to be on a lookout for the initial and thus much more subtle signs of interest. One example of this would be a gorgeous girl simply looking at your face. Obviously people tend to look at what or whom they like to look at. But whereas an average girl first just looks at your face and then progresses into the more overt signs of interest described above, looking at your face from time to time might be the only sign of interest you’ll ever get from the most beautiful of girls. So if you think you’re not getting any signs of interest from beautiful girls – you are, but you just can’t see them well enough yet.

Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.

I’M INTERESTED                                                         DON’T BOTHER ME

Sidelong glance(s)                                                             Never sneaks a peek

Looks at you a few times                                                  Fleeting eye contact

Holds your gaze briefly                                                     Looks away quickly

Downcast eyes, then away                                              Looks away, eyes level

Posture changes to alert                                                   Posture unchanged

Preens, adjusts hair, attire                                              Does no preening

Turns body toward you                                                     Turns body away

Tilts head                                                                             Head remains vertical

Narrows eyes slightly                                                       Eyes remain normal

Smiles                                                                                   Neutral, polite face

Matches your posture                                                       Posture unchanged

Eyes sparkle                                                                       Normal or dull eyes

Licks her lips                                                                     Keeps mouth closed

In sum, frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of time she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off eye contact, down before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction of body, toward you, good, away, bad. Overall posture, erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that’s bad. Hand activity, clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is great.Billionaires Guide:  Advanced Body Language

Most of us are slightly afraid as well as somewhat excited in settings where social interaction is expected and required. So, most people do not sit or stand in an open posture. But, during courtship, the more open the other person’s posture is, the more open that person is to you and your advances. And, the more open you are, the more likely the other person is to open up to you. First Conversation Signals. Men, pay attention to all the ways she communicates during the first few minutes as you talk with her.

KEEP TALKING                                                          MOVE ON

Alert, energetic                                                                 Tense, restless

Pupils dilated                                                                    Normal or small pupils

Gradually opens posture                                                Posture remains closed

Lowers drink                                                                     Keeps drink high

Touches self gently                                                          Grips or pinches self

Caresses objects                                                               Squeezes, taps objects

Crosses and uncrosses legs                                          Legs remain crossed

Flashes of palm                                                               Back of hand gestures

Crossed legs steady                                                         Swings crossed legs

Dangles shoe on toe                                                       Keeps shoe on

Hands never touch face                                                 Touches face

Touches you any reason                                                Never touches you

Feet firmly on floor                                                         Feet on edges or toes

Loosens anything                                                          Tightens anything

Leans forward                                                                Leans away

Steady hands, feet                                                         Tapping, drumming

In social settings, most of us start out in a closed, defensive posture because we’re a bit apprehensive. A closed posture feels safe. When the person you are talking with shifts to a more open posture, it signifies trust and comfort. That person is, literally, opening up to you and what you have to offer. It takes courage to open up to the other person. If you go first, she, or he, will usually follow your move from closed to slightly more open. Open up in, slow, gradual shifts of posture.

In the next few articles we will cover, best place to meet girls you probably didn’t think of.

 

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